挺有道理的,一般人确实对你的“规则”不太质疑,比如说我戒酒了,通常人家不劝。但如果说,我今天不喝,他可能会不愉快。

In a quirk of psychology, people typically don’t argue with your personal rules. They just accept them as features of who you are. People question decisions, but they respect rules.